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Teo's nightmare. Short story for children about shame


What is it the shame? This short story helps children understand what this emotion is and why there are certain circumstances, even in dreams, that can make us feel ashamed. Share with your children the story of Teo's nightmare so that they understand what this emotion consists of. In addition, we have accompanied this children's story by Marisa Alonso with some reading comprehension activities for the little ones in the house.

One more morning, Teo woke up sweating and very upset. It was a recurring nightmare: around him were people he had never seen in his life. Suddenly something happened and was starting to turn red like a tomato, more than a bell pepper, and seeing how they looked at him and laughed at him, he wanted to make himself invisible and disappear forever from the face of the earth.

- What's wrong with you, son? That nightmare again? - The mother asked alarmed, stroking her wet bangs with sweat.

- Everyone laughs at me!What a shame! - He said very sad.

- Do you know why they laugh? Are you sure they laugh at you? asked the mother again.

Teo could not find an answer to his mother's question, he only knew that he felt very ashamed before those unknown people.

That night he went to bed with the thought that he should find out why he felt that shame that made him suffer so much.

He was on the street again, he was alone, people were walking around him without paying attention to him. He approached to see something in a shop window and, suddenly, he was reflected:i was naked!

Teo looked at his body and indeed he was walking naked on the street. She criedAt the same time he covered his mouth with one hand and the other between his legs, and his fuss made those who passed by put their gaze on him. At that moment he felt a lot of shame and began to turn very red. That's when people started laughing at seeing him so nervous.

It was not yet dawn and Teo went to wake up his mother.

- Mom, Mom, I know! I have discovered it! - He shouted - they look at me because I'm naked down the street.

His mother asked him to tell her about his nightmare in detail.

- So - said his mother repeating the boy's words - are you going naked down the street, and nobody looks at you until you realize when you see yourself reflected in a shop window? How long have you been walking? she asked him.

Teo looked at his mother doubtfully. He was right. No one had looked at him, no one had seen his nakedness until he screamed and caught people's attention.

From that very day, Teo stopped having nightmares.

Reading comprehension is a very important skill for children's learning, that is why we must work on it from school but also from home. Here are some exercises that are related to reading.

1. Reading comprehension and reflection questions
We started with a round of questions. To attract attention and provide a playful review for children, we suggest that you do them as if it were a game or a quiz, rather than as an exam. Some of these questions serve as a reading comprehension exercise and others will make the child reflect and learn from what happens to the protagonist of the story.

  • What nightmare does Teo have over and over?
  • How do you feel in the nightmare?
  • What does your mother tell you to do?
  • Have you ever had a dream similar to Teo's?
  • What is shame? How do you feel when you are ashamed?
  • Do you remember a time when you felt like this?

2. Illustrate the children's story
Ask your son or daughter to draw a picture to illustrate the story. This is a very creative exercise for children to practice their manual skills. In the case of slightly older children, you can suggest that they make a comic with different vignettes that tell the story. In this way, they will also be working on reading comprehension.

3. Invent a new ending to the story
A very fun exercise, and one that tends to lead to very surprising results, is to ask the children to come up with an alternate ending or to continue the story. If we also encourage them to write their ending on a sheet of paper, they will be working on written expression, spelling, calligraphy, etc.

Everyone, at some point in our life, we have felt ashamed. It is a common emotion that makes us feel something unpleasant, but it is inevitable. As explained in 'A resource before internal shame, self-compassion' by Elisa García for the University of Comillas (Spain), shame is considered a self-conscious emotion, because it requires us to evaluate ourselves.

This means that we feel ashamed according to the experience that each one has of himself, which determines our way of being and being in the world. When we feel shame, we feel exposed and judged, either emotionally or physically, because we feel inferior to other people.

Parents can help our children manage a situation in which we feel ashamed. Let's look at some tips.

- Avoid all phrases that do not validate the emotion
'Has the cat bit your tongue?', 'Keep it up and we'll go home', 'He'll get over it!' These are some of the phrases that we should avoid because they do not help the child to manage this emotion, but rather invalidate it.

- Accompany and explain this emotion
When the boy or the girl has this emotion that is somewhat unpleasant, he wants us to accompany him, console him and be by his side (either physically or emotionally, according to each child). We can take advantage once the bad drink is over, to teach him that what he has felt is an emotion called shame.

- Read poems or stories about shame
Reading stories like this one by Teo or poems like 'The Unhappy Bear' helps children understand what this emotion consists of and learn.

- Work on children's self-esteem
Teach them to laugh at everything, give them a boost of encouragement and motivation, tell them and show them all the qualities they have ... They are resources to work on children's self-esteem and make them feel stronger to face the moments of shame that they may give yourself in your day to day.

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