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5 tips for parents with responsive children


There are more peaceful and obedient children. Others have a stronger personality and tend to refute everything. It can occur from 4-5 years of age or when adolescence arrives. Something that does not have to be a problem as long as they do not use hurtful words like 'You're bad', 'Do it yourself', 'I don't care' ...

If your child starts to answer inappropriately or by default first of all, don't despair. We give you five tips to overcome this stage, in case you are one of those parents who is suffering this period.

1. Control your emotions and do not get on their level
It is easy to say but difficult to do, so you have to remember that 'You are in control of the situation, you are the adult'. If you ask for respect, you must be the first. So stop challenging him and avoid phrases like 'What did you say?', 'Come on, repeat it'. All this will cause the situation to escalate and you will not get your child to stop saying it.

2. Use empathy and stop thinking that it is challenging you
Thinking that your child is bad is only going to get you to approach the situation in the wrong way and on top of that, you will get more angry. So to break that cycle of bad answers, try not to give it too much importance and stop thinking that it is a personal attack. Instead, understand that it is a frustration for him, like many of those you have or were at his age and let him know. You can say for example: 'I understand that you do not like your brother playing with you but that is not the way to say it.

3. Talk to your child only when they are calmer
It conveys the importance of talking about what one feels or thinks, but at the same time explains that he must channel that anger in a certain way so as not to hurt others. Of course, you should come up with solutions together. Use phrases like this: 'How can you do it next time?'

4. Speak clearly and without complications
There are many parents who give too many explanations and some try to use double meanings or ironies to explain it, and in communicating with a child it is totally useless. On the one hand, because he may not understand what we are saying and on the other, he will think that you are laughing at him or her and will be an obstacle to communication.

5. Mark your limits
In the same way that it is important for him / her to express, it is that you do it. You can explain it this way: 'When you talk to me like that, I get angry and I don't like how you are answering me, so I would like you to tell me if you want something without calling me bad.'

The bunnies who did not know how to respect. For disrespectful children. The bunnies who did not know how to respect is a fantastic story to discuss the value of respect. Share with the children this story with reading comprehension questions so that your children understand what the value of respect means. A short story for children of all ages.

Carola's nightmare. To improve children's behavior. Carola's nightmare is a children's story that we can read to our children to improve their behavior. A story that helps children reflect on their bad behavior and improve their attitude. Stories with values ​​to change the behavior of children.

The boy and the nails. To correct the temper of children. The boy and the nails is a children's story that talks about the consequences of the temper and temperament of children. An experience for children to reflect on their bad reactions. You can use this story to help your child understand what happens when he is unable to channel his anger.

Daniel and the magic words. To talk about kindness. Daniel and the magic words is a children's story that will make your child reflect on the importance of words and kindness. Values ​​are the rules of conduct and attitudes according to which we behave and that are in accordance with what we consider correct. This story encourages kindness in children.

Chiquitín and the disobedient elephants. For rebellious children. If your child usually disobeys and is also not afraid of anything, it is time to read Chiquitín y los elephantes disobedientes, a story for rebellious children that will make them reflect and realize what can happen when they ignore their parents. A nice story to encourage children to read.

The chimbel. Funny story about respecting others. This poem for children talks about respecting others and their wishes. It is titled 'El chimbel' and proposes the story of a snake and a snake. We have accompanied this nursery rhyme with some educational activities and reading comprehension exercises.

The rope mouse among mice. Stories about respect. Have you ever wondered if your own wishes are the same as those of others. You may do something that you think someone else will like because you like it, but they don't. This is the story of a little mouse that had a dream. Story about respect for others.

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